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spacer Lesbian comedian Judy Gold brings her one-woman show ‘25 Questions for a Jewish Mother’ to Atlanta Sept. 10-21. (Photo courtesy Gold)
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Lesbian comic Judy Gold asks ‘25 Questions for a Jewish Mother’

By DYANA BAGBY
SEP. 5, 2008
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Judy Gold's ‘25 Questions for a Jewish Mother’
Sept. 10-21, various times
Center Theatre of the Marcus Jewish Community Center, 5342 Tilly Mill Road, Dunwoody
678-812-4002

Judy Gold GLAAD evening
Sept. 12, 8-10 p.m.
www.atlantajcc.org

Appearance at Outwrite
Sept. 19, 8 p.m.
Outwrite Bookstore & Coffeehouse
991 Piedmont Ave.
www.outwritebooks.com

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At 6’3”, Judy Gold is a woman who stands out, literally, in a crowd. She’s also loud, gay, the Jewish mother of two sons and the daughter of an overbearing Jewish mother. Put all that together, and you get a recipe for laugh-out-loud comedy.

The stand-up comic, who won two Emmy Awards for writing and producing “The Rosie O’Donnell Show,” created a one-woman show about eight years ago with writing partner Kate Moira Ryan. It’s based on interviews they did with some 50 Jewish moms from across the country, ranging from Orthodox Jews and Holocaust survivors to a Chinese woman who converted to Judaism because of her husband.

The show, “25 Questions for a Jewish Mother,” became an Off Broadway sensation, and Gold brings it to the Center Theatre of the Marcus Jewish Community Center in Dunwoody Sept. 10-21. The run includes a special Sept. 12 Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation evening.

The popularity of the show resulted in a book with the same title, and Gold will also come to Outwrite Bookstore & Coffeehouse on Sept. 19. Gold says her stories of growing up as a Jewish daughter, being a Jewish mother, as well as stories that simply explore the relationships between children and their parents will entertain Jews and non-Jews alike.

“It is a very universal theme,” she says. “It doesn’t appeal only to Jews. The title doesn’t really do it justice. It really is about relationships between a child and a parent and a journey.”

SoVo: What were some of the questions you found many of the women would be prompted to talk about more than others?

Gold: There were several, but the most common were, “What’s your biggest regret?” “What would you have done if you not had children?” and “What the best advice your mom gave you?”

SoVo: What was the best advice your mom gave you?

Gold: It’s stupid. But she told me never to put anything in writing. And my father was a tax attorney. Go figure. I will say my mom’s interview was the most interesting. The question that surprised me the most was her answer to what would she had done if she didn’t have children … but I can’t tell because that would give most of the show away.

SoVo: How do your sons feel about having two gay moms? [Gold gave birth to her youngest son, and her former partner gave birth to the older son.]

Gold: For them, that’s the way it is. Most of their friends have a mom and a dad. But they have two parents who love them. I know my older son hates it when he hears kids use words like “fag,” “gay,” “lezzy.” It really, really bothers him. No one can tell me my kids are missing out. Kids that are the same age as my kids, they just don’t understand why our family is less than another family.

SoVo: You talk to your mom every day. When was the last time you talked to her, and what did you talk about?

Gold: Oh, actually a couple hours ago. We talked about [John] McCain and him picking a woman vice president! She says [Gold begins speaking in her mother’s accent]: “I can deal with it, but am I ready for it now? I don’t know.”

She’s from a different generation where women have a place and are supposed to keep quiet. Which is funny because I’m the complete opposite. She says, “Judith, what are you getting so upset about? Why are you in an uproar?” I’m always in an uproar.





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